You Can't See Me! There is a reason I chose to enter my wedding reception to the blare of trumpets and the looping horns of "The Time is Now." It wasn't just fandom; it was an invocation. John Cena has always been the figure to channel when the air gets thin and the room gets heavy. He is the talisman for the tough times. And now that he has finally untied the armband, I am forced to look at him not just as a sports entertainer, but as a masterclass in the architecture of gr